Wow, it's been a long time. As I'm sure you all know, our precious son was born on December 9th at 9:12PM weighing 7 pounds 15 ounces and measuring 20 inches long. He was born via c-section after a failed 30-hour induction. To be honest, part of the reason I haven't blogged since the birth is because of the way it all happened. It was a fairly traumatic experience for me, and one I worked oh so hard to avoid in the months before. I consider my surgical birth to have been medically unnecessary...something perpetrated upon me by a medical system that set me up to fail. This may sound dramatic, but it's true. It's also a hard pill to swallow because I knew I wasn't with the "right" medical providers, but our insurance wouldn't cover anything else and we didn't have the money to pay out of pocket. Instead, I payed another way: with myself. Sometime soon I'll have to write up my whole experience to share. Perhaps it will be helpful to me and others. There are some positive things within my story too, and writing them down will help me remember them. Please don't think for a moment that I am anything but 100% grateful for my beautiful, healthy son. I am! In fact, I am deliriously grateful for him. Grief over my birth experience can co-exist with gratitude for my healthy baby. I think I'll save the rest of my thoughts for the long version of the story...
So now, let me finally, officially introduce Joseph Daniel, our amazing little boy!
And here's a more recent photo (he's already 2 months old!)
If you're still checking this blog, thank you. I haven't given you much reason to do so lately. Check back soon for more pictures of our beautiful children :)!
Thursday, February 19, 2009
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Yay for babies and pictures! I can't believe he is 2 months old already!!! How in the world did that happen?
I appreciate what you wrote about the c-section-very beautifully honest i think...
Congratulations on your new son! I'm sorry that it was awful in terms of the labor and the medical system. We know all too well with Kathleen's Dad about the system. Hope the girls are having fun with their baby brother!!
Russ, Kathleen and Abigail
I love that last picture, looks like Joseph is getting so big already!
Can't wait to see more pics and hear more about your life with THREE! :)
Hope you are doing well.
Awww! :) He is such a beautiful baby boy!! Congratulations!! Love those pics of the girls holding him! SOO sweet!!!
~Staci
Congratulations!!! I have been faithfully checking the blog to see the news. He is beautiful as are those girls of yours.
Wishing you happiness and joy.:)
~deanna
Your comments remind me of things that I have read in Dr. Sear's
"Birth Book" this week as I am mentally preparing for the upcoming arrival of our newest little one. I am so sorry that things did not go as planned for your delivery! Although not with the same ending, Karissa's birth (and Micah's for that matter) were not what I would have hoped either. It can be a really difficult thing to reconcile the "happy to have a new baby" feelings with the "frustrated that my medical care during labor and delivery was less than satisfactory" feelings.
BTW, y'all have adorable kids! :)
Anita McFarlane
Congratulations on your beautiful baby. The photos of all three of your children are adorable.
Sorry to hear that you had a terrible go of it. Hard way to spend the first months of your life with your baby.
So happy to see all the new pics and of course, the baby!!! But I am saddened that your experience was so difficult and is still a source of frustration and upset for you. Hopefully that will start to fade.
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